EASTER - A SECOND CLASS HOLIDAY? Many years ago when my Grandpa was still alive and I was living with him, I remember the joy with which he would prepare for Easter. Grandpa expressed no excitement about Christmas. He told me many times, "Anyone can be born. Ah, but to rise again from the dead, that is special." Every Easter, he would walk downtown to East Federal Street in Youngstown, Ohio and purchase a nice fat chicken for Easter dinner. This was a live chicken, but Grandpa knew just what to do with him. It was part of the ritual that he brought with him from Poland. Since he could no longer raise his own chickens as he had on his own farm in the old country, he did the next best thing. For some reason, that Easter chicken tasted much better than one butchered by someone else. If everything were going well that day and my Grandma did not get on him for drinking too much Seagrams, he would bring out his accordion and play polkas and everyone would sing and dance. Death and life seemed to be one and the same to him. When he died, we celebrated his life and death with a real bash after the funeral. I was told by my Grandma and parents that Grandpa would have wanted it that way: to see all of us still alive enjoying life. The dead are dead. Let the living live. To many Christians, Easter is a second class affair compared to Christmas. This is due in part of Madison Avenue's marketing of it. Christmas is spending money, buying gifts, Santa Claus, and all the other materialistic rituals that we have been led to believe are important. Each year, I'm sure that many people resolve to celebrate the holidays more traditionally. But we often don't get around to it. This is the modern condition. Carl Jung, who wrote Man and His Symbols, maintained that people live in the shadow of symbols of their culture. Jung wrote his treatise many years before we were deluged with the slick huckstering of the advertizing world. Today, many of our symbols are ephemeral and change with the whim and fancy of Madison Avenue. How much simpler life was when Grandpa's live chicken became Easter Sunday's dinner, when children never believed in the Easter Bunny, and when the mystery of the Resurrection filled us with a sense of awe and wonder. Fifty days from now we celebrate Pentecost, the spiritual birth of the Christian church. Will this day pass too like Easter with just a moment's hesitation in our busy schedules? I hope not. On Pentecost, the holy spirit descended upon the apostles, giving them the power to found the Christian church. It is written in Acts, 1, verses 1-4: And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place. And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and it filled all the house where they were sitting. And there appeared unto them clove tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them. And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance. The symbol of the tongues is significant, because it represents the universality of all who read, believe and live within the context of the new Christian order. Perhaps Pentecost is even more important to those who believe in Christ than the other holidays, for at that moment, the church came to life. On the seventh Sunday after Easter, shall we choose to celebrate our birthright as Christian people with prayer, with renewal, with a childlike sense of the glory of the life and death and resurrection of the Lord and our opportunity to live, world without end...? I heard this the other day. A man was complaining to his friend about how picky his wife was. "She's so picky that when we go to the store she takes hours just to select the most common things. She compares one box of cereal to another just to make sure she's getting the most for her money. She can't just make a simple choice. I don't know what I'm going to do. I don't know if I can take it any more. Her pickiness is driving me crazy." There was a moment of silence and then the friend said, "Gee, isn't it neat that your wife is so picky, mind you, that of all the men in this world that she could have picked for her mate, she picked you." The light bulb goes on. You hear, "I never thought about it that way before." This is the essence of reframing the content of a message. Those tongues superimposed upon the apostles' heads were the symbol of the power to see the world in a new light, in a new frame. The old order was passing and a new order arose from the sepulchre. Whether it be in choosing how we believe, worship, or select a mate, the most precious gift given to us is our Free Will. Let us use it wisely.